The Aisha Sultana Interview: Elite Dominatrix who Subverts Patriarchy Through Training Men in Service

“Female power and liberation are not luxuries, they are necessities."

From a young age, Sultana Aisha knew she possessed dominant energy. In her interview with me, the awe-inspiring Dominatrix tells about how she first became aware of the power she held over men as a teenager. Since then, she has extensive experience as a professional Dominatrix providing luxury domination experiences.

She presides over Femdom Harem Parties, where Mistresses can relax as male slaves in the harem tend to their every need. She mentors Mistresses in one-on-one sessions, teaching practical BDSM knowledge, marketing, social media strategies, and more from basic to advanced skills. She offers training for subs, including over voice calls, on how to better serve their Goddesses, Queens, and Mistresses. In her sessions, she is a master at bringing fantasies to life.

Not having had the opportunity to join her harem, and not (yet) having the means to afford spending two hours with (or under) her, I have merely encountered Sultana Aisha on Instagram, where her photos and videos are unbelievably alluring. I particularly like how the accompanying text, stories, and poems Sultana Aisha shares multiply the sublimely sensual effects of her imagery. She has also inspired and cultivated her devoted worshippers to leave interesting comments.

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Now, on with the interview:

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I read that you got involved with the femdom lifestyle when you were 17 years old. That sounds interesting. How did you know you were dominant, and how did you find the community?

I first became involved with the femdom lifestyle when I was 17. It wasn’t something I stumbled into, it was more like a truth that had always lived inside me. From an early age, I felt a deep sense of power, presence, and intuitive command when it came to relationships, especially with men. What confirmed this for me was how naturally submissive some people became in my presence, not through force, but through magnetism, reverence, and energetic dynamics.

One of my earliest and most unexpected encounters with power dynamics happened during a family gathering. By pure chance, I noticed someone discreetly showing an unusual fascination with my summer sandals. Rather than feeling shocked or uncomfortable, I found myself amused and curious. It felt like I had suddenly uncovered a hidden layer of human behavior, one that invited me to explore and observe more closely. There was something almost symbolic in that moment, a subtle shift in energy, where I intuitively understood that I held a certain kind of influence. That realization sparked something in me, the awareness that this dominant energy had always been there, quietly resting beneath the surface, waiting to be claimed.

Of course, I also come from a cultural background where women had very little say, and that always caused a deep discomfort in me. I noticed how intelligent women actually are, especially in my own family—women who were wise and strong in their essence, but who had no voice and no right to make decisions. Even at a young age, I knew that I could not accept that. I knew that I had to break that cycle. I was not willing to live a life like the women before me who were quietly but deeply repressed. This realization planted the seed for the path I walk today.

I found the community slowly and somewhat secretly at first. I was curious and read everything I could find, literature, forums, old blogs. Then I started connecting with others who resonated with my energy and mindset. From there, it unfolded.

Were you living in Zurich at that time, or did you move there?

I was born in Berlin, and later I moved to Zurich, which has now become a base for much of my work. My cultural background is Iranian and Turkish, though I have never been to Iran. I spent a lot of time in Turkey, and the contrast between what women were allowed to do there and how things were in Germany made a lasting impression on me. This cultural tension, the gap between freedom and limitation, fueled the fire in me even more.

It wasn’t only what I saw within my own family, it was also what I experienced across cultures. In Turkey, I saw women with sharp minds and strong spirits being limited or silenced, while in Germany I saw how different things could be, yet still weren’t perfect. That contrast awakened something deep in me. It became crystal clear that female power and liberation are not luxuries, they are necessities. And that repression doesn’t just happen privately, it is embedded in cultural systems. That understanding shaped my path profoundly.

What have you learned in your years as a Dominatrix?

Being a Dominatrix has taught me that power and love are not opposites, they are allies. I’ve learned that true dominance is never about cruelty or ego. It’s about responsibility, structure, creativity, healing, and often, silent strength. It’s taught me to see people’s vulnerabilities as doorways, not weaknesses.

You founded Aishism. Is Aishism a religion, a philosophy, a hybrid, or something else?

Aishism is a living, evolving system. It’s not a religion in the dogmatic sense, but it is sacred. It’s a philosophy, a code, a lifestyle, and a movement. It merges spiritual consciousness with erotic energy, matriarchal vision, and radical personal truth. Aishism honors female-led hierarchies, while also offering meaning and ritual to those who submit. It’s rooted in ancient archetypes, but lives fully in the now.

Last year, you spoke at the International Femdom Summit in Bucharest. How was the experience there, and how excited are you for the 2025 Femdom Summit from May 21–23?

The 2024 Summit in Bucharest was powerful. I felt a collective force rising, women from so many nations coming together, each of us with our own language, history, and methods, yet unified in mission. For me personally, it was truly special to be able to speak on stage at the FEMDOM Summit.

It was the first time I publicly shared my thoughts on femdom, and to do so in front of so many other dominas was a tremendous honor. I was nervous, of course, but at the same time, I felt that I was exactly where I was meant to be. What touched me deeply was the feedback I received afterward, some Mistresses had tears in their eyes when they spoke to me. That moment was one of the most beautiful I’ve experienced so far, if I may say so. Through my words, I felt that I was also speaking from the hearts of other women, and that felt incredibly meaningful and honorable to me.

Yes, I’m very much looking forward to the 2025 edition in May. Each summit becomes more than an event, it becomes a signal to the world that female dominance is here, grounded, and rising.

At the Femdom Summit 2024, you said (according to Google Translate), “Think every day and keep going and make society stronger and stronger, so that women from my home countries, like Persia, Iran, and Turkey, also have more role models and are more motivated to stay.” What role do men in general, and male subs in particular, have to help advance the cause of women’s freedom and equality?

Yes, that quote reflects what I deeply believe, the strength of a society grows when its women rise. And for women in regions like Iran or Turkey, who face repression or invisibility, representation and support matter. Male subs can be part of this shift, not by trying to lead, but by holding space, amplifying female voices, and showing that male ego does not need to be dominant to be dignified.

Do you believe that men submitting to women in femdom carries with it a political or social statement?

Absolutely. Every act of consensual submission to a woman carries with it a rejection of patriarchal norms. It says, I trust you, I elevate you, I surrender with purpose. That’s not just erotic, it’s revolutionary. When practiced consciously, femdom is a form of resistance and rebuilding.

You host a number of Harem Femdom Parties. What is it like working with so many divine Mistresses?

The Harem parties are divine chaos, in the best way. Working with so many gifted, fierce, and artistic Mistresses is an honor. There’s a rhythm to it, a dance. Each one has her own magic, and together we create something larger than ourselves. It's not just play, it’s ritual, pageantry, and a living matriarchy.

What is life like for the male subs or slaves who are part of your harem?

Life in the Harem is structured, devotional, and immersive. Each sub has roles, duties, and a place within the hierarchy. But beyond protocol, there's growth. My slaves learn to listen deeply, serve with pride, and understand that their obedience can be a gift. Some serve privately, others publicly, but all of them are shaped by discipline, grace, and transformation.

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Visit Sultana Aisha’s website to learn more about her services and her upcoming events. Her next Harem Femdom Party is on April 17, 2025 in Zurich, and there is currently one slot left.

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