People Who Hate OnlyFans Models Are Weird
And they are even weirder if they appear on a podcast to whine about how much they hate them.
People who hate OnlyFans models are weird. People who whine about OnlyFans models on podcasts are extremely weird.
So Facebook spammed me with a video from one of those "manly man"(-osphere) pages that I don't follow that had clipped a video of a prudish woman yelling at a couple of OnlyFans cam girls.
Some weirdos on a podcast for weirdos. (The girls who appear on the podcast are weirdos, too; why help them out? And the listeners who watch these guys talk about bullshit for three plus hours are real weirdos.)
This is not the video I am quoting from. I just found it when I was googling for a feature photo to use because it’s the exact same as every other NPC man podcast.
You know the podcast. You might not know the name of this particular podcast or any of the robots in it, but you've seen it before--even if it was under a different name. They're all the same. They're the same as every other fake podcast/engagement bait that social media algorithms spam on its users' feeds.
The NPC woman was yelling at a couple of cam girls and trying to shame them, telling them that they should put up with disrespect and abuse from men as a consequence of their jobs.
I'm paraphrasing here, because do I care enough to go back and find the precise word-for-word quote?
Do you expect your boyfriend to respect you? You just showed your private parts to a bunch of men on video. Your boyfriend should do the same. Of course, he's going to fuck around with other women. [Response from one of the girls and interruption] You are showing your cunt on camera! You are showing your hole! That should be private and reserved only for your man!!!
Note the false equivalency. The woman yelling into the camera says that a man cheating on a woman is equivalent to a woman displaying her body for money on an adult entertainment website. There's no equivalency. The OnlyFans model who records herself and doesn't offer any special services is not having sex with anyone else. The man who is fucking another woman in this hypothetical example is just pleasing himself and looking for an excuse to do what he was already planning on doing. The OnlyFans model is earning money; she's not doing it for selfish pleasure.
"Of course, he's going to fuck around with other women."
Of course, she's going to break up with him if he cheats on her. Let's reframe the conversation about the real sinner in the example and the real person who is losing out. She should break up with the loser, anyway. The podcast is just trying to justify mistreating women and trying to convince women who are abused to stay with their abusers.Â
Why is the hypothetical man in the example dating an OnlyFans model in the first place? Here's an idea for prudish men who feel jealous over the idea of other men seeing their girlfriend naked: don't date cam girls or sex workers.
There's a trope about guys just "discovering my girlfriend's OnlyFans page." The guys are so sad and outraged that they feel compelled to write a Reddit post about it. They feel they've been deceived. But a woman who does OnlyFans is under no obligation to tell a man on the first date when the two are just getting to know each other. We don't have to share everything with everyone on day one when we don't know how we feel about that person yet.
If we're talking about someone who discovered her active OnlyFans after two years, then that's something different, but the real problem would be that you must have a poor relationship if you don't even know what your girlfriend does for work.
It would be better for a girl to be open about her occupation earlier (not necessarily on the first date) rather than later for the same reason I recommend kinky submissive guys open up about their fetishes early on. If you are doing an adult entertainment job and you want to continue doing it, you don't want to be with one of those prudish bitches who would mistreat you because of it. It would be better to find out early on if he's mature or not and end it is he isn't.
Why would a man be outraged about the idea of his girlfriend being so hot that other men would pay her just to see her body? That just means your girlfriend is hot.
Why would a man be so jealous about the possibility of other guys seeing her pussy on video? You're the one who gets to lick and penetrate that pussy.
But, then again, some men are even outraged if their girlfriend ever had any relationships in the past. Those values just indicate a weak and controlling man.