Ari Chase-Ramos: Diary of an Eroticist

Ari Chase-Ramos: Diary of an Eroticist

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Kinky Comedy: My Pattaya Bar Girl Fantasy
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Kinky Comedy: My Pattaya Bar Girl Fantasy

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Jun 05, 2025
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I read a story a couple of weeks ago about a British man who was beaten up by the bar girls, hit with their heels, after he didn’t pay the bill. And I thought, damn, that sounds like my kind of bar. You get free drinks and a domination session.

Here is a clip from my standup comedy set last week. I am performing again today and tomorrow night.

In my standup, I find the humor in kink, fantasy, femdom, and how it all relates to life. The host introduced me as (and I think it’s a fair description), “an interesting mix of what would happen if you introduced sadism and masochism with a dash of philosophy.”

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I’ve been performing comedy for almost a year now. My girlfriend, Queen Nazz, who encouraged me to start writing erotica, has supported me fully in my creative efforts. Now I have the confidence to share my comedy clips more widely. You can see excerpts by following me on YouTube and Instagram, and I will publish longer videos of my sets for paid subscribers here on Substack—as well as on my other video websites, which you can find on LinkTree.

I will be livestreaming today on ManyVids at 6 pm Indochina Time/noon UK time/7 am U.S. EST. Watch my livestream here.

In this set from last week, I talk about the alphabet of kinks, how many unimaginable kinks there are, how my Queen and I got into filming fetish videos, the hazards of filming facesitting videos with a BBW woman, and my dream of being punished by a sadistic bar girl. (If you also have a fetish for bar girls with long legs and sexy high heels, read my erotic novella Punished by the Bangkok Bar Girls.)

Paid subscribers can watch my standup set from last week and my upcoming sets.

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